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Kim & Jason Magazine

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A world without music would be a world overrun with Adultitis. This issue is jam-packed with stories, tips, and ideas on how music can soothe your soul, fire you up, energize your life and escape adulthood like nothing else!

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Features…

Marching to a Different Beat by Jason Kotecki

An Interview with… Bob McGrath of Sesame Street

For the Love of the Mix Tape by Jenna Regis

Studio Zumba Rocks Dayton by Elizabeth Weizman

The Other Side of the Radio by disc jockey Fletcher Keyes

Escape Plan: Strong Museum of Play by Kim Kotecki

Kids, Rock & Roll and FUN! by Rock & Roll Guru Joe Heuer

How to Throw a Rockin’ Karaoke Party by Lorraine Yii

10 Ways Music Can Help You Escape by Kim & Jason Kotecki

Musical Memories by musician Tiamo De Vettori

Thank You Rick Astley by funnyman Doug Kotecki

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(This is an excerpt of an interview from the Kim & Jason magazine with Peggy Willenberg, who is one half of the duo known as “The Twister Sisters.” Peggy and her friend Melanie Metz started chasing twisters together in 2001. They’ve been involved with two documentaries for The National Geographic Channel, and enjoyed their own series on WE TV.)

Kim & Jason: How did you and Melanie meet and how did you become known as the Twister Sisters?

Peggy: We actually met twice. The first time, Mel attended a Skywarn class I was instructing. It was my first time to present a class and I thought Melanie seemed really smart and knowledgeable. Then about a month later, I joined an Internet discussion group of chasers in our area. She was also in the group and was the only other woman; we naturally began talking on our own. We decided to meet up and go for a chase together. We had a great time and it went from there. The Twister Sister name started out as a joke and it just stuck.

K&J: We’re sure lots of people must think you’re crazy. But then again, anyone who chases his or her dream can be expected to be called crazy at some point or another. Why do you chase tornadoes?

Peggy: I have been fascinated with severe weather and especially tornadoes since I was about three years old. They seemed like such threatening monsters. I wanted to know how they worked and get close to such an awesome thing. Of course there was lots to learn, and life gets in the way, but when the time was right, I turned my full attention to learning meteorology and the art of forecasting. You have to be in the right place waiting for one to form or you will never see one.

K&J: When did your fascination with and passion for tornadoes begin?

Peggy: As a child growing up in Indiana, I experienced a lot of severe weather. I often dreamed about tornadoes (as did Melanie). When everyone else would run to the basement, I would run outside!

K&J: What’s the scariest or most dangerous moment you’ve ever experienced while chasing a tornado?

Peggy: Chasing the Hallam-Wilber, Nebraska tornado at night, we came upon an injured man walking down
a dirt road asking for help. His family was buried in a destroyed house and there was no one around to help other than us. We got everyone out OK, but with leaking propane and lightning all around, it was pretty scary.

K&J: What has been the most thrilling or rewarding moment?

Peggy: Seeing a tornado form 25 yards ahead of us on the road. The vortex went from a tiny thing to a huge tornado throwing trees in about three minutes. I guess you could say we saw the “birth” of a tornado…


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This digital issue is FREE to download!

In this issue…

Children are passionate about life. As we get older, Adultitis has the tendency to choke out that passion. This issue is jam-packed with stories, tips, and ideas on how you can tap into your passion and re-energize your life!

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Features…

Break Free by Jason Kotecki | An essay on following your heart, pursuing your passion, and living life daringly.

An Interview with… Peggy Willenberg | This tornado chaser shares her passion for crazy weather.

Kitchentertainment by Kim Kotecki | Relive the first ever Kim & Jason Escape Event.

Feeling Good Is Quick, But Not Always Easy by Bonnie St. John | Speaker, author, and Olympian Bonnie St. John outlines some easy ways to feel a whole lot better.

The Workplayce by Brett Farmiloe | Brett shares some lessons learned from a cross-country road trip in an RV.

Escape Plan: San Diego Zoo by Kim Kotecki | Discover five awesome ways to escape adulthood at this world famous zoo!

Living the MAP Maker’s Life by Curt Rosengren | Craft a life of meaning, abundance, & passion with these simple ideas from the Passion Catalyst.

Thoughts from a ToyMaker by Marilyn Scott-Waters| Paper toymaker extraordinaire shares her philosophy and one of her toys you can make!

A Passion for Children’s Books by Jen Robinson | Jen explains her love for children’s books, and recommends a few of her favorites for adults.

Freedom to Have Fun by Shirley Jones | A nostalgic look back at the free-spirited days of childhood.

Too Much Passion? by Doug Kotecki | Is it possible to live too passionately? Funnyman Doug explores the issue.

…Plus much, much MORE!

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The journey of creating a magazine cover

We really had a lot of fun with this cover, going with a full-blown Wizard of Oz theme. It required a lot more effort and Photoshop savvy than previous issues — and the Tin Man costume was really HOT — but I think it turned out pretty well.

I’ve written up a little behind-the-scenes look at how the magazine cover was shot and digitally, um, enhanced.

The first step, once we decided to do a Wizard of Oz-themed cover, was to track down the costumes. Originally, the idea was for me to be the Scarecrow, but Kim suggested that the Tin Man would be more appropriate, as his search for a heart was a better link to the idea of passion. Jenna was able to procure an authentic Dorothy costume from her family. Meanwhile, Kim scoured the internet and local costume shops for a good Tin Man outfit. Some of them were so bad we wondered if the people making them had ever even seen The Wizard of Oz. Kim badly wanted me to try on one costume that heavily relied on spandex as its main source material. I declined.

We finally found a decent Tin Man costume to rent — at least one I felt I could work with in Photoshop — and we purchased a plastic funnel hat and heart clock. We did the photo shoot in the office. Doug was the photographer, and he had to stand on a table to get the right angle. Jenna stepped in as prop manager, lighting assistant, and costume attendee — she’s multi-talented!

We took over 50 photos, with a variety of poses, and loaded them into the computer to decide on the right one…

Step 1: One picture seemed to be better than all the rest: it was in pretty good focus, Kim’s red slippers (I mean Chuck Taylors) were visible, Stinky was in a good spot, etc. The only problem was that a bit of the Tin Man’s hat was cut off. In order to make sure we had plenty of space for the masthead on the final cover, I brought in another photo that showed more of the hat, and blended it together with the original photo.

Step 2: The next step — mostly unnoticable in this photo — was to sharpen up the photo and clean up any little problem areas (such as a major zit on Dorothy’s face.)

Step 3: Here you can see the photo retouching I did on the Tin Man costume. I cleaned out the wrinkles, straightened out the sleeves, and generally just made the suit more stiff and metallic looking. A good understanding of light and shadow came in handy here.

Step 4: In this step, I gave myself a silver face. Much easier (and cleaner) than having to mess with real makeup, I began by creating a new layer in Photoshop with a copy of just my face. I brought the saturation way down so that it was almost completely black and white. Then I had to carefully paint in some light washes of the yellow ochre on the side of my face so that it matched well with the hat. Finally, I utilized the “Noise” filter to add a bit of speckling to make my face look metallic.

Also, since Dorothy and friends didn’t travel to Oz on a hardwood floor, I had to carefully remove the background from the original photo. It was important to use an eraser with a blended edge, to make sure the outlines were soft. Otherwise, it would look like we were cut out of a magazine and taped to the background. Not quite what I was going for.

Step 5: Good thing I paid attention while they taught perspective in drawing class. I tried dropping in a photo of a brick road, but it looked terrible because the perspective wasn’t right. I knew then that I’d have to create my own yellow brick road. Ugh. Luckily, I could see some of the planks in the hardwood floor in the original photo, so I used it as a guide to help me create a grid in Adobe Illustrator.

Step 6: I was then able to drop the grid back into Photoshop under the original photo and fill it in with a dark yellow base.

Step 7: Using the grid as a template, I began coloring in the bricks by hand (or mouse, I suppose), slowly layering up different colors of yellow. This was the most tedious and boring part of the whole project. By the way, for some reason, I had hidden the “Silver Face” layer and “Tin Man suit” layer, which is why you can see the original elements of the photo in this screenshot.

Step 8: Some finishing touches included more color and detail on the bricks. I also darkened and lightened some of the bricks and added some texture filters to make them appear more lifelike. Then I dropped in a photo of grass, while painting a few blades over the bricks to merge them together more realistic. I also added in the shadow under Kim.

Step 9: The key to bringing it all together in the final piece was subtly blurring the background bricks and the photo of the grass to make it all look like it is part of the same picture. If the background was sharper than the parts of the image that are closer to the camera, it wouldn’t look right. In the end, I don’t think I necessarily achieved super realism, but rather something a bit more fantastical which is based in reality. If that makes any sense.

This image shows the finished photo dropped into InDesign (my page layout software) with the masthead, copy, and design elements all positioned just so.

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(This is an excerpt of an article written for Kim & Jason magazine by motivational speaker, author, and triathlete Jason Womack. He is skilled at offering practical suggestions for dealing with the challenges of balancing work and other areas of life.)

arms_outstretched.jpgI was at a wedding last summer, at a winery atop the rolling hills of Oregon. At one point during the meal, the bride and her mom approached my table and said, “Hey, Jason, do you remember Billy Walsh?” It turns out she knew my best friend from 2nd grade! And in an instant, it all came back…

Playing “Connect Four” for hours at school.

Hiking along the Pepper Creek for hours in Lagunitas, California.

Playing for hours with Legos® all over the living room floor.

Building a “secret fort” to get away from our little brothers…for hours!

Now-a-days, we have to make conscious and concerted decisions to “slow down, stop, and smell the flowers.” And, I can personally attest to the “business case” of slowing down. The only question is…what do we DO when we press pause?

Every now and then, we need to call on those who know us the best.

Who’s on your team? Who can you call to get you back on track, re-motivated, and inspired to take the actions, complete the projects, and stretch out into new landscapes you may not have seen just yet? You might not have the “hours and hours” I had as a child to spend with my best friend. Not to worry.

Here are two ways to maximize your relationships with the people on your team, the people who you know help you out, and the ones you want to share your time, your spirit, your creativity and your ideas with in return.

Write a Letter

Write just one letter a week. I know, I know it doesn’t seem like much but as this issue’s theme is “delighting in the little things,” I can tell you how far those “little cards” go in making and creating friendships that last.

Here’s what I do (and, feel free to use and/or modify this technique) to stay connected: I buy half a dozen cards at once. Usually on sale (shhhh!!! It’s the little things, remember!) and I put first-class stamps on them. I write my return address in the upper left-hand corner, and then I put the cards in my briefcase.

Through the week, I will randomly – it just happens, I can’t help it! – think of people. No matter where I am, it’s usually just a matter of minutes until I have written them a note, added their address to the envelope, and placed that card in my “traveling inbox.” When I check into the hotel that night, or take out my inbox the next morning, I place the card in the mailbox and go along my way…


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(This is an excerpt of an article written for Kim & Jason magazine by Marg Forbes, CEO of The Forbes Solution. Marg combines her accounting acumen and her emotional intelligence skills to make numbers less intimidating and more meaningful for small business owners.)

lessons_learned.jpgMy mom was 39 when I was born, and although I was a “surprise”, I’ve always felt wanted, loved and cherished. She had three other children, but I was always her baby. When I lived at home, I never went to sleep without a goodnight kiss. When I moved away, I talked to her on the phone or visited her every day.

Over the past few years, on my visits home, I’ve noticed my mom’s health gradually declining. This spring, just before she turned 86, we realized that she wouldn’t be able to stay in her home much longer; by fall she had found a place in a seniors’ facility.

I spent several weeks with my mom this summer, helping her cope with the reality that she needed constant care. More than once, it struck me how the tables had turned. Whereas forty some years ago, she had been helping me grow from dependence to independence, now I was helping her make the opposite transition.

For me, caregiving has been an emotionally, physically and spiritually draining experience. Many days I felt like I was losing my best friend. Afternoons of shopping and eating out, and evenings of playing cards were replaced by innumerable visits to various health professionals and emergency rooms. Whereas we used to talk about life’s joys and troubles, our conversations now focused mainly on my mom’s failing faculties. Many times she would say to me, “Growing old is not for the faint of heart!”

While sitting in waiting rooms holding mom’s hand, or watching her sleep in a hospital bed, I’d often find myself fascinated by the children who were also there, tagging along with mom or dad, or visiting their grandparents. I was reminded of some of the simple things I learned when I was their age – things that I’d forgotten in the busyness of growing up and becoming an adult.

Kids are happy to see their loved ones. I began to consciously put my troubles aside when I was with my mom. She was no longer my shoulder to cry on. Now, I was supporting her. I hugged her more and talked about things that were positive – the nice nurse, the warm blankets they brought around at night, and how surprisingly good the hospital food was.

Kids want to hear stories. I decided to ask my mom to talk about her life, and listened in a way I’d never had the time or patience to before. Some days she could only tell me parts of the story, but then a few days or a week later, she’d remember more details. It made the time pass quickly, and I learned more every day about myself and my mom.

Kids bring their own toys or make toys out of whatever is available. I decided mom and I should have some fun, too. We played cards with a deck specially made for people with limited eyesight, did crossword puzzles and read trashy magazines together. We laughed like…well, like kids!�


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(This is an excerpt of an interview from the Kim & Jason magazine with Seth Godin, the best-selling author of the “Purple Cow” and the newly released “Meatball Sundae.” Seth candidly shares his thoughts on Adultitis and being childlike.)

meatball_sundae.jpgKim & Jason: You wear Missmatched socks, feature kewpie dolls on book covers,write about purple cows, and created a book that was packaged in a cereal box. You obviously have a pretty strong childlike spirit. Where does that come from, and why do you feel it’s important in the work you do?

Seth: I actually think that most kids aren’t so childlike. With all the pressure and fear and insecurity they deal with every day, it’s hard for even them to be that way. What I’m shooting for is fearlessness and joy, combined with an understanding of why it’s all worth it.

Where does it come from? I think it comes from realizing that the riskiest thing I can do is play it safe.

K&J: You’ve often pointed out that in our competitive landscape, the little things sometimes make the biggest difference. What are some little things that a business can do (maybe something that most don’t), which would make a big difference to their bottom line?

Seth: There are a million. They could involve treating people with respect, as opposed to hiding behind a company. They certainly involve failing, and failing often, in an attempt to do something worth doing.

K&J: Many businesses these days are suffering from a bad case of Adultitis. They are stuck in unimaginative ruts, afraid of change, and take themselves way too seriously…is there any hope for them? What can they do to change?

Seth: Well, of course, Adultitis means “swelling of the adult”. What’s swollen, apparently, is the insulating bubble we set up around ourselves. My advice is to strip that away, discover what happens when people laugh at you. It’s not so bad.

K&J: What are the biggest areas you see Adultitis negatively affecting business these days?

Seth: I hate the way big companies hide behind double speak and ‘policies’ and I hate the fear people in organizations have of their bosses.

K&J: When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?

Seth: Believe it or not: This. This is what I dreamed of. I thought I’d be running a summer camp, but I sort of do that now, just without the canoes.


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This latest digital issue is FREE to download!

In this issue…

When we were kids, delighting in the little things was second nature. This issue is jam-packed with stories, tips, and ideas on how you can use strategies from childhood to better appreciate the magic and importance of the little things in life.

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Features…

Excited Over Little Things by Jason Kotecki | How to recapture the magic of simple pleasures.

An Interview with… Seth Godin | The ever curious marketing guru and best-selling author of “Purple Cow” and the recently released “Meatball Sundae” shares his thoughts on Adultitis and being childlike.

Why Cupcakes Take the Cake by Rachel Kramer Bussel | Rachel co-writes the
blog Cupcakes Take The Cake and shares several reasons why when it comes to sugary goodness, nothing beats cupcakes.

Press Pause and Connect by Jason Womack | Speaker, author, and triathlete Jason Womack offers two little ways to maximize your relationships with the people in your life.

It’s Cool to Be a Big Kid in an Adult World by Rich DiGirolamo | Who said work can’t be fun? Rich shows the way.

Escape Plan: Northern California by Kim Kotecki | Discover five awesome ways to escape adulthood the next time you visit NoCal!

Lessons Learned When the Tables Turned by Marg Forbes | Do you find yourself in the demanding role of caretaker for a spouse or parent? Marg shares some valuable insights on how being childlike can help.

Introduction to DigiScrapping by Dianne Rigdon | Digital scrapbooking is all the rage. Dianne provides a primer to get you started on your way to creatively capturing your favorite memories.

The Fine Art of Play by Lisa Rickwood | Lisa shares how a little thing like laughter can make a BIG difference.

Unfinished Tales by Ian Tyrrell | A delightful reflection on books and stories, especially the “Neverending” kind.

Consider the Hideously Disgusting Millipede by Doug Kotecki | An interesting take on insects, toilet paper, and the little things in life.

…Plus much, much MORE!

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